deadline on your invitations. If you haven’t heard by the deadline, follow up. However, life happens. Some no-shows will be completely understandable... and some, less so. First, don’t panic. It’s 100% frustrating when excuses feel flimsy, and it’s okay to feel disappointed – own that feeling. Then move into problem-solving mode. If there’s still time, contact your venue’s coordinator to see if any changes are needed to the table plan. Remove any place settings to avoid gaps and let your caterer know about the new numbers. Even if they can’t adjust the price, it avoids unnecessary waste. Have a backup list? Maybe there’s someone you originally cut due to numbers or cost, or someone listed as evening-only. Now’s your chance to invite them to the full day if you’d like! CRISIS #6 – ATTIRE SOS In the run-up to your wedding, it’s normal for your body to go through changes. Stress, hormones, sleep, diet and activity levels all influence your metabolism and water retention, leading to possible weight fluctuations, even if you’ve been consistent with your routine. So, if your dress or suit feels a bit snug in the final days, don’t panic. You’re not alone! Act quickly and contact a seamstress or tailor, as many can make last-minute tweaks like letting out seams or adjusting closures. Shapewear or supportive undergarments can also change the fit and feel of your outfit, so speak to a lingerie expert about what works best for your look. If you suspect water retention, stay hydrated, limit salty foods and opt for anti-inflammatory meals. Most importantly: don’t wait too long to try everything on together. We’re talking dress, shoes, accessories, underwear – all of it! That way, any problems are spotted early. CRISIS #7 – OPINIONATED GUESTS Everyone has an opinion when it comes to weddings, and it can quickly get overwhelming, especially with well-meaning loved ones adding pressure. Remember, it’s your day. It should reflect who you are as a couple. Whether it’s the guest list, the traditions or the overall vibe, don’t worry about other people’s expectations. Most of the time, loved ones just want to feel included. If it gets too much, kindly say, “I value your input, but we’ve made a decision and need your support.” You could even assign them a small task to help them feel involved without interfering. CRISIS #8 – PRE-WEDDING NERVES Feeling nervous before the big day is totally normal. It’s an exciting time, but also a lot to handle emotionally. There are lots of tools to help, like breathing exercises, prioritising self-care, journaling affirmations and staying organised. Yoga or meditation can be helpful too. We also recommend a spa day or a relaxing treatment during the lead-up to the wedding. The night before, take time for yourself. A warm bath, skincare routine, a feel-good movie or your favourite book set a peaceful tone. On the morning itself, surround yourself with your closest people, good music and snacks. Delegate tasks so you’re not overwhelmed. Before walking down the aisle, try the 54321-grounding exercise, naming five things you can see, four things you can touch, three things you can hear, two things you can smell and one thing you can taste. From there, get ready for your new chapter! unsplash.com@seljansalim unsplash.com@vitormonthay PLANNING SOS 35
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