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First things first: Happy New Year! I love our first issue of the year as it’s the time we welcome most new readers, with the festive season being the most popular for romantic proposals, and celebrate with existing readers as they flip over the calendar to realise – “We’re getting married THIS YEAR!!” Welcome one and all; we’re delighted to be sharing this exciting chapter with you. Whichever camp you fall into, I hope you’ll find this issue useful and inspiring. For those of you starting out on this exciting journey we present our annual Planning SOS feature, where we tackle some common questions the newly engaged often have. What’s more, whether you’re seeking guidance from those wise couples who’ve been there, done that, or simply like being nosey (we don’t blame you), there’s plenty to love in our local real weddings this issue. I can’t wait to discover what 2026 has in store for the wonderful world of weddings. The time for beginnings Your Yorkshire Wedding is solely owned, published and designed by Ellis Media and Events Ltd. Whilst every effort was made to ensure the information in this magazine was correct at the time of going to press, the publishers cannot accept legal responsibility for any errors or omissions, nor can they accept responsibility for advert content, or of the standing of advertisers or by the editorial contributions. The views expressed do not necessarily reflect those of the publisher. Your Yorkshire Wedding is published six times a year. ISSN 1746-9384 DESIGN 01376 535 616 artwork@county.wedding ACCOUNTS 01376 535 616 accounts@county.wedding MANAGING DIRECTOR Sarah Ellis | 01376 535 602 sarah.ellis@county.wedding EDITORIAL Deputy Managing Editor Kelly Andrews | 01376 535 611 kelly.andrews@county.wedding Visit us online at www.county.wedding and www.countyweddingevents.com @CountyWeddingMagazines @countyweddingmagazines @countyweddingmagazines Pantone’s Colour of The Year has been announced for 2026. Drum roll please, introducing Cloud Dancer. It’s a total wedding vibe! £49, lunandwild.com £160, vam.ac.uk shop £19.50, ingeniousgifts.co.uk £4.95, rexlondon.com £179, dunelondon.com £179, thefauxflowercompany.com Kelly Andrews, editor Kelly x On the cover This issue’s cover of real wedding couple Bethany and Creg was captured by their photographer Phillippa from Pears Photography (pearsphotography.co.uk). Discover the story of their big day from page 22. What’s hot? ADVERTISING Account Manager Julia Owen | 01376 538 495 julia.owen@county.wedding EDITOR’S LETTER 3
Regulars 3 EDITOR’S LETTER A warm welcome from Kelly 7 NEARLYWED NEWS Catch up on news from around the county 93 COMPETITION Win a honeymoon in the Maldives worth £5,000 In this issue... JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2026 Venues 11 SPOTLIGHT ON NORTH YORKSHIRE Tie the knot in or around the Yorkshire Dales WIN! A HONEYMOON IN THE MALDIVES Features 35 PANIC-FREE PLANNING Daunted by the mammoth task that lies ahead? Fear not, our troubleshooting guide to wedding planning is here to help 40 FROM COLD FEET TO NOSHOW SUPPLIERS Protect your wedding day against unexpected events 42 IT’S ALL ON THE ‘GRAM How weddings have gone from photo albums to curated Instagram posts 45 BETTER SHAPE UP Show off your body shape in a glorious gown to suit you Win 93 11 16 57 © Gareth Buddo 74 4
Real weddings 16 INSTA-LOVE Olabamidele and Boluwatife met on Instagram and tied the knot at Atoy Venue in Sheffield in September 2025 22 MINIMALIST MOMENTS Bethany and Creg said “I do” at Bawtry Hall, and kept their styling chic, elegant and modern with a black and white palette Honeymoons 80 HONEYMOON NEWS Our travel editor reveals the newest openings and honeymoon essentials 82 LOVE IN THE CARIBBEAN Uncover the magic that makes St. Lucia a top honeymoon hotspot 86 A POSTCARD FROM SARDINIA Jet to Resort Valle dell’Erica and Hotel Capo d’Orso with British Airways Holidays 88 A CANVAS OF CALM Where art meets the Med, we discover Mallorca’s creative hideaway, Kimpton Aysla 90 2026 AFRICAN HONEYMOON HOTSPOTS Hot and happening African honeymoon hotspots for 2026 92 A ROOM WITH A VIEW Wake up to the chimes of Big Ben and stay at the five-star luxury London Marriott Hotel County Hall 45 29 Grooms 63 GROOMS’ NEWS The latest best buys and product launches 64 REFINED ROMANCE Velvet looks for today’s groom 66 WINTER LUXE We’ve put together a simple guide to help you craft the perfect winter look Fashion & Beauty 52 WORKS OF ART These statement necklines promise style down the aisle 57 FASHION FOCUS The latest bridal news, buys and launches 58 WATERCOLOUR WONDERS Bridesmaids will love these dreamy new season styles in pretty, soft shades 59 FINE FINISHING TOUCHES Make an entrance in one of these exquisitely decorated dresses 68 BEAUTY BUZZ The latest launches and must-haves 71 SIX MONTHS TO RADIANCE A bride’s guide to glowing wedding day skin 72 THE SECRET TO SEAMLESS SCULPTING Underpainting: Get that glow-from-within look, even as we head into the winter months 74 HERE COMES THE SCIENCE BIT! We chat to ESK founder Dr Ginni Mansberg to learn how evidence-based ingredients set the brand apart in the world of skin care 78 20 WAYS TO SLOW DOWN Wedding planning is a time to treasure – find out how to avoid overwhelm and be more present throughout with mindset and success coach Jo Irving 64 82 CONTENTS 5
Nestled beside the Yorkshire Wildlife Park, our boutique offers a unique and homely atmosphere, providing a serene escape for brides-to-be. Immerse yourself in the calm surroundings as you explore our curated collections, each gown designed to reect the timeless elegance of your love story. Discover the perfect blend of wildlife charm and bridal allure here at Dorothy Eloise, where dreams take ight in the most serene setting. 07564 057 052 enquiries@dorothyeloisebridal.co.uk www.dorothyeloisebridal.co.uk @dorothyeloisebridal Images courtesy of www.instagram.com/sophiewjphotography Dorothy Eloise Bridal is a stylish contemporary boutique offering gorgeous gowns to match Doncaster-based Dorothy Eloise Bridal flung open its doors in 2024 welcoming brides-to-be to peruse its stock featuring the ultimate in contemporary bridalwear from fashion forward, sought-after designers. Owner Samantha Kidd has been part of the bridal industry for nearly a decade and has accumulated a wealth of wisdom during that time, so she’s perfectly placed to help you find your dream dress. “My passion runs deep, and every aspect of my boutique is so well thought out, with brides at the forefront of my mind,” she tells us. Plus, she prides herself on providing a cosy atmosphere that you and your loved ones won’t help but enjoy. “I always say, it’s the most relaxed bridal boutique in South Yorkshire,” Sam continues. The boutique stocks gowns by some of the world’s top bridal fashion designers, including Lillian West, Justin Alexander, Evie Young, Elysee and Madi Lane. Each designer brings its own unique style offering a full range of styles to choose from. Indeed, we adore these showstopping examples captured during a recent styled shoot Dorothy Eloise Bridal collaborated on, aptly demonstrating the boutique’s vibe as well as 2026’s trending styles – the sleek and sophisticated high-neck Evie Young gown and a lace-lovers dream by Justin Alexander. The modern bride DON’T DELAY, BOOK YOUR APPOINTMENT TODAY! Unit 18-19, The Yorkshire Hive, Hurst Lane, Auckley, Doncaster, DN9 3QY dorothyeloisebridal.co.uk enquiries@dorothyeloisebridal.co.uk 07564 057 052 the-relaxedbride.com the-relaxedbride.com
A new chapter of luxury weddings Built in 1864 and reimagined in 2022, The Highfield, in Driffield, invites you to experience its magic first-hand at a wedding showcase on 18th January 2026 – an immersive open day featuring trusted suppliers, styled spaces, and personal consultations. A series of Open House Evenings throughout the winter will also offer a relaxed way to explore the venue and discuss bespoke plans with the team. Sitting within eight acres of gardens and woodlands, the venue offers couples exclusive use of the house, gardens, and accommodation for more than 24 guests. Find out more at thehighfield.uk Among the clouds Pantone, the global colour authority and provider of professional colour language standards has introduced Pantone 11-4201 Cloud Dancer, a billowy white imbued with a feeling of serenity, as its Colour of the Year selection for 2026, and it’s a total wedding vibe! An ethereal white hue, Cloud Dancer serves as a symbol of calming influence in a frenetic society rediscovering the value of measured consideration and quiet reflection. Similar to a blank canvas, Cloud Dancer signifies our desire for a fresh start. We can’t wait to see our local wedding afficionados embrace this trending hue throughout 2026! A PLACE TO REST YOUR HEAD Bowburn Hall Hotel near Durham has unveiled plans for the Cottage Suite, available for bookings for the night before wedding ceremonies. The former staff accommodation block is currently undergoing a transformation and, when complete, will sleep up to eight people. The cottage includes a large dressing area with makeup and hair stations, stateof-the-art bathrooms with rainfall showers and copper baths, three bedrooms and a stylish living area with a fold-out sofa bed. It will also boast an incredible private courtyard with an outdoor sauna, hot tub, barbecue and fire pits. Bowburn Hall Hotel hosts one wedding a day and has a number of different packages available, as well as exclusive-use deals including the Hall’s 20 bedrooms plus its five garden lodges. Find out more at bowburnhallhotel.co.uk NEWS Nearlywed Catch up on the latest from around the county LATEST NEWS 7
Think pink If you’re looking for a local wine that won’t break the bank, check out The Straw Hat Lush & Fruity Rosé NV (75cl from £4.95), produced in Yorkshire using grape juice from sunny Spain. Delicately pink and irresistibly inviting, this rosé brims with the scent of strawberries, raspberries, and juicy fruit. Fresh and lively, it’s medium-bodied with just the right balance of fruit and tang. It’s ideal with dessert or creamy pasta dishes and enjoyed over ice at girly prewedding get-togethers paired with your fave posh crisps. The Straw Hat wines are available nationwide in Tesco, Morrisons, B&M, Iceland, leading retailers, and at many local independent stores. NEW COLLECTION Kate Beaumont is thrilled to unveil her latest bridalwear collection – a fresh edit of timeless designs for modern brides. Across 18 new pieces – including eight gowns, one jumpsuit, five tops, and four skirts – the collection explores both thoughtfully refined and entirely new silhouettes, while staying true to the design values that run through all of Kate’s creations. As ever, versatility is key. From bias-cut silk slips to textural tops and soft, fluid skirts, the new pieces are designed to mix and match with one another or pair effortlessly with favourites from the Icons collection. Kate’s eco-conscious, pure silk fabrics return, including silk satin, matte marocains, and hammered satins, joined by a beautiful new addition, organic embroidered organza. Every gown is made to order, and custom alterations can be easily accommodated. This flexibility ensures every design works perfectly for the wearer’s figure and preferences. Kate Beaumont bridalwear is available through private appointments at her welcoming Sheffield studio or via online consultations for brides based further afield. Find out more at kate-beaumont.co.uk PROUD POOCHES Some stories begin later in life, but for owner of Yorkshire Wedding Tails Jayne, it began when she was just four years old. This is when her mum taught her to sew – “Those moments became some of my most treasured memories,” she tells us. At 15, Jayne became a tailoress, determined to learn every part of the job and by 23, she began working from home, making designer children’s wear until the shop closed. Later, an opportunity came along to make dog collars and leads for a small business, and buying her first industrial sewing machine felt like a dream come true. While she loved it there, when the company began struggling, she decided to take the leap. “People were constantly saying I should start up on my own, but I didn’t seem to have confidence,” she explains. After nearly a year of planning, Yorkshire Wedding Tails was born – combining her love of sewing with beautiful pet wedding accessories. “I hope I’ve made my mum proud, I couldn’t have done it without her,” Jayne shares. Make sure your fur baby looks as smart as you do on the big day, and find out more at yorkshireweddingtails.co.uk Love In A Mist, kate-beaumont.co.uk 8
Wedding Violinist Multi Award-Winning | Highly Experienced | Bespoke Live Strings for Your Big Day A range of live string services available: Solo: Violin | Electric Violin | Cello | Harp Duos: Violin and Piano | Violin and Cello | Violin and Harp | Violin and Guitar Larger acoustic ensembles: String Trio | String Quartet Music plays a pivotal role in making your special day truly memorable, sculpting the mood, narrating your unique love story, evoking emotions, and creating the ideal ambiance for you and your guests. If you’re interested in discussing how I can help you to create your perfect wedding soundtrack by bringing the elegance and drama of live string music to your big day, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me at yorkshireviolinist.com/contact Every wedding booked plants a tree in partnership with JUSTONETree 07412 655 689 | info@yorkshireviolinist.com yorkshireviolinist.com Photo courtesy of Fabio T Photography Does a special guest need any extra care or attention on the day? I’m a dedicated wedding‑day carer, providing compassionate support for those cherished family members who need a little extra help to fully take part in the celebration. My role is to ensure they feel included, comfortable, and empowered, so they can share in the joy of the day. This service is also a wonderful gift for the unpaid family carers who usually shoulder the responsibility of care. I offer them a moment of respite—a chance to be fully present, relax, and enjoy the occasion without worry. serendipitycare.co.uk 07971 293398 Crathorne, Yarm, North Yorkshire TS15 0AR 01642 700398 | crathornehall@handpicked.co.uk handpickedhotels.co.uk Photographic contributions from Steve McDonald Photography & White Dove Photography HOTELS BUILT FOR PLEASURE CRATHORNE HALL HOTEL YARM, NORTH YORKSHIRE LUXURY COUNTRY HOUSE VENUE Celebrate your special day at Crathorne Hall in North Yorkshire, where stunning architecture and 15 acres of gorgeous grounds create the perfect wedding backdrop. Choose from grand or intimate ceremony settings or serene gardens for outdoor vows and celebrate in style with up to 200 friends and family. Exclusively Yours Enjoy exclusive use from £8,900 and make Crathorne Hall your private haven for an unforgettable celebration.
https://www.thecrowthers.co 01904 728252 • enquiries@escrick.com • Escrick Park Estate, Escrick, York, YO19 6EA www.escrick.com A perfect nature inspired space for your bespoke wedding event A beautifully secluded woodland and parkland setting, perfect for a heartfelt DIY wedding where you can bring your own vision to life. With the flexibility to bring your own suppliers and design the layout to create a celebration that feels completely you. Tall trees, open green spaces and rustic charm give you the freedom to personalise every detail. erfect backdrop for ur perfect day! ue experience for every couple. Steeped in grand The perfect backdrop for your perfect day! A tailored and unique experience for every couple. Steeped in grandeur, you’ll run out of time in the day before you run out of photo opportunities! A true fairy-tale wedding destination. Drop us an email: info@allertoncastle.co.uk. Give us a call: 01423 330927. Visit our website: www.allertoncastle.co.uk • The perfect, romantic setting, as unique as you and your partner. • A fantastic Gothic Castle and grounds, nestled in theYorkshire countryside • "Exclusively yours" Permitting you to make memories to cherish for a lifetime in a private location with only your friends and family. • Perfect for weddings of all sizes. • Our dedicated Event Managers on hand to ensure the planning is stress-free. Allerton Castle - fp.qxp_Layout 1 22/07/2022 11:41 Page 1 The perfect backdrop fo your perfect day! A tailored and unique experience for every couple. Steeped in gra you’ll run out of time in the day before you run out of phot opportunities! A true fairy-tale wedding destination. Drop us an email: info@allertoncastle.co.uk. Give us a call: 01423 330927. Visit our website: www.allertonc • The perfect, romantic setting, as unique as you and your partner. • A fantastic Gothic Castle and grounds, nestled in theYorkshire countryside • "Exclusively yours" Permitting you to make memories to cherish for a lifetime in a private location with only your friends and family. • Perfect for weddings of all sizes. • Our dedicated Event Managers on hand to ensure the planning is stress-free. Allerton Castle - fp.qxp_Layout 1 22/07/2022 11:41 Page 1 The perfect backdrop for your perfect day! A tailored and unique experience for every couple. Steeped in grandeur, you’ll run out of time in the day before you run out of photo opportunities! A true fairy-tale wedding destination.
BOLTON CASTLE Tie the knot in a local hotspot THE ABBEY INN Byland Abbey, Coxwold, YO61 4BD 01347 868 204 | abbeyinnbyland.co.uk ALLERTON CASTLE Allerton Mauleverer, HG5 0SE 01423 330 927 | allertoncastle.co.uk THE ANGEL AT HETTON Skipton, BD23 6LT 01756 730 263 | angelhetton.co.uk AQUARIUS RISING Richmond, DL10 7PJ 01748 850 333 | holidayathome.co.uk BEDALE HALL Bedale, DL8 1AA 01677 423 797 | bedalehall.org.uk BELLE VUE SQUARE Skipton, BD23 1FJ 01609 780 780 | northyorks.gov.uk BILTON HOUSE Harrogate, HG1 5AG 01609 780 780 | northyorks.gov.uk BOLTON ABBEY STATION Skipton, BD23 6AF 01756 710 614 embsayboltonabbeyrailway.org.uk BOLTON CASTLE Leyburn, DL8 4ET 01969 623 981 | boltoncastle.co.uk THE BRIDGE HOTEL & SPA Wetherby, LS22 5HS 01937 580 115 | thebridgewetherby.co.uk BROUGHTON HALL ESTATE Skipton, BD23 3AE 01756 799 608 | broughtonsanctuary.co.uk THE BURGOYNE Richmond, DL11 6SN 01748 884 292 | theburgoyne.co.uk THE CAIRN HOTEL Harrogate, HG1 2JD 01423 504 005 strathmorehotels-thecairn.com CAMBLESFORTH HALL Selby, YO8 8HJ 07897 720 765 | camblesforth-hall.co.uk CAMP HILL ESTATE Bedale, DL8 2LS 01845 202 100 | camphill.co.uk CARLTON TOWERS Carlton, DN14 9LZ 01405 861 662 | carltontowers.co.uk THE CASTLE INN Spofforth, HG3 1BQ 01937 590 200 thecastleinnharrogate.com CEDAR COURT HOTEL Harrogate, HG1 5AH 01423 858 585 | cedarcourthotels.co.uk CHARLES BATHURST INN Richmond, DL11 6EN 01748 884 567 | cbinn.co.uk CONISTON HOTEL Skipton, BD23 4EA 01756 748 08 | theconistonhotel.com CRATHORNE HALL HOTEL Crathorne, TS15 0AR 01642 700 398 | handpickedhotels.co.uk THE CROFT HOTEL Darlington, DL2 2ST 01325 720 319 | croft-hotel.com THE CROWN Harrogate, HG1 2RZ 01423 567 755 | crownhotelharrogate.com DENTON RESERVE Ilkley, LS29 0HH 01943 813 481 | dentonreserve.co.uk NORTH YORKSHIRE THE YORKSHIRE DALES AND AROUND SPOTLIGHT ON... Gareth Buddo LOCAL VENUES 11
THE DEVONSHIRE ARMS HOTEL Bolton Abbey, BD23 6AJ 01756 710 440 | thedevonshirearms.co.uk DOUBLETREE BY HILTON HARROGATE MAJESTIC HOTEL AND SPA Harrogate, HG1 2HU 01423 700 300 | hilton.com THE DURHAM OX Crayke, YO61 4TE 01347 821 506 | thedurhamox.com ELSWORTH AT THE MILL Skipton, BD23 1NL 01756 462 902 | elsworthatthemill.co.uk ESCRICK PARK ESTATE Escrick, YO19 6EA 01904 728 252 | escrick.com FALCON MANOR Settle, BD24 9BD 01729 823 814 | jamesplaces.com THE FELL HOTEL Skipton, BD23 6BT 01756 729 000 boltonabbeyescapes.co.uk FOREST HILL VIEW Potto, DL6 3HP 01642 903 464 | foresthillview.co.uk THE FORGE AT BIRDFORTH HALL Birdforth, YO61 4NW 01845 421 182 | theforgeyorkshire.co.uk THE GAMEKEEPER’S INN Skipton, BD23 5PN 01756 752 434 | gamekeeperinn.co.uk THE GARDEN ROOMS AT TENNANTS Leyburn, DL8 5SG 01969 621 146 | tennantsgardenrooms.com GEORGE OF PIERCEBRIDGE Piercebridge, DL2 3SW 01325 374 576 thegeorgepiercebridge.co.uk GEORGIAN THEATRE ROYAL Richmond, DL10 4DW 01748 823 710 | georgiantheatreroyal.co.uk GOLDEN FLEECE HOTEL Thirsk, YO7 1LL 01845 523 108 | goldenfleecehotel.com GOLDSBOROUGH HALL Goldsborough, HG5 8NR 01423 867 321 | goldsboroughhall.com GRANTLEY HALL Ripon, HG4 3ET 01765 620 070 | grantleyhall.co.uk GRASSINGTON HOUSE Skipton, BD23 5AQ 01756 752 406 | grassingtonhouse.co.uk HARROGATE MASONIC HALL Harrogate, HG1 5NE 01423 561 656 | harrogatemasonichall.com HAZEL BROW HOUSE Richmond, DL11 6NE 01748 886 224 | hazelbrow.co.uk HAZLEWOOD CASTLE HOTEL Tadcaster, LS24 9NJ 01937 535 353 | hazlewood-castle.co.uk HERRIOTS HOTEL Skipton, BD23 1RT 01756 792 781 | herriotsforleisure.co.uk HIGH PARADISE FARM Thirsk, YO7 2HT 07739 498 255 | highparadise.co.uk HOLIDAY INN DARLINGTON Richmond, DL10 6NR 01748 850 900 | hidarlington.co.uk HORNINGTON MANOR Bolton Percy, YO23 7AS 07930 983 284 | horningtonmanor.co.uk HOTEL DU VIN Harrogate, HG1 1LB 01423 856 800 | hotelduvin.com HOWARD COURT Great Ayton, TS9 6RL 07851 063 350 | howardcourt.co.uk HUTTON WANDESLEY STABLES Hutton Wandesley, YO26 7NA 01904 738 755 huttonwandesleystables.co.uk THE INN, SOUTH STAINLEY Harrogate, HG3 3ND 01423 779 060 | theinnsouthstainley.com CARLTON TOWERS chrischambersphotography.co.uk 12
ERVAULX ABBEY Jervaulx, HG4 4PH 01677 460 391 | jervaulxabbey.com KETTLESING MILLENNIUM VILLAGE HALL Kettlesing, HG3 2LB 01423 771 524 | kettlesingvillagehall.org.uk KILNSEY PARK Skipton, BD23 5PS 01756 752 150 | kilnseypark.co.uk KING’S HEAD HOTEL Richmond, DL10 4HS 01748 850 220 | kingsheadrichmond.co.uk LASKILL COUNTRY HOUSE Helmsley, YO62 5NB 01439 798 265 | laskill.co.uk LITTLE SEED FIELD Ripon, HG4 3PU 07817 904 339 yorkshiredalesglamping.co.uk LODGE FARM WEDDINGS Cundall, YO61 2RN 07984 799 508 | lodgefarmweddings.co.uk LOW OSGOODBY GRANGE Thirsk, YO7 2AL 07399 420 511 lowosgoodbygrangeeventsvenue.com MARKENFIELD HALL Ripon, HG4 3AD 01765 692 303 | markenfieldhall.com MERCURY HOUSE Richmond, DL10 4JX 01609 780 780 | northyorks.gov.uk MIDDLETON LODGE Middleton Tyas, DL10 6NJ 01325 377 977 | middletonlodge.co.uk NEWBURGH PRIORY Coxwold, YO61 4AS 01347 868 372 | newburghpriory.co.uk NEWBY HALL Ripon, HG4 5AE 01423 322 583 | newbyhall.com NORTON CONYERS Ripon, HG4 5EQ 01765 640 333 weddingsatnortonconyers.co.uk OAKWOOD AT RYTHER Tadcaster, LS24 9EL 07384 116 730 | oakwoodatryther.co.uk OLD DEANERY Ripon, HG4 1QS 01765 600 003 | theolddeanery.co.uk OLD SWAN HOTEL Harrogate, HG1 2SR 01423 500 055 | theoldswanhotel.co.uk PARSONAGE HOTEL AND SPA Escrick, YO19 6LF 01904 728 111 | parsonagehotel.co.uk PAVILIONS OF HARROGATE Harrogate, HG2 8NZ 01423 544 544 greatyorkshireeventscentre.co.uk PHEASANT HOTEL Harome, YO62 5JG 01439 771 241 | thepheasanthotel.com PRIESTS HOUSE Barden, BD23 6AS 01756 720 616 | thepriestshouse.com PRIORY BARN & COTTAGES Tadcaster, LS24 8BN 01937 833 900 | priorycottages.co.uk RICHMOND TOWN HALL Richmond, DL10 4QL 01748 850 808 RUDDING PARK Harrogate, HG3 1JH 01423 871 350 | ruddingpark.co.uk RYEDALE FOLK MUSEUM Hutton-le-Hole, YO62 6UA 01751 417 367 | ryedalefolkmuseum.co.uk THE SADDLE ROOM Leyburn, DL8 4TJ 01969 640 596 | thesaddleroom.co.uk SANDBURN HALL Flaxton, YO60 7RB 01904 469 922 | sandburnhall.co.uk SHERIFF HUTTON CASTLE Sheriff Hutton, YO60 6ST 01347 879 041 | sheriffhuttoncastle.co.uk FALCON MANOR LOCAL VENUES 13
THE PRIESTS HOUSE SIMONSTONE HALL HOTEL Hawes, DL8 3LY 01969 667 255 | simonstonehall.com SKIPBRIDGE COUNTRY WEDDINGS Green Hammerton, YO26 8EZ 01423 331 453 skipbridgecountryweddings.co.uk SKIPTON CASTLE Skipton, BD23 1AW 01756 792 442 | skiptoncastle.co.uk THE SKIPTON HOTEL Skipton, BD23 2TA 01756 700 100 | skiptonhotel.co.uk SQUIRES CAFE BAR Newthorpe, LS25 5LX 01977 684 618 | squires-cafe.co.uk THE SUN PAVILION Harrogate, HG1 2PQ 01423 522 588 | sunpavilion.co.uk SWINTON ESTATE Masham, HG4 4JH 01765 680 900 | swintonestate.com TAN HILL INN Richmond, DL11 6ED 01833 533 007 | tanhillinn.com TELFIT FARM Richmond, DL11 7NG 01677 470 886 | telfit.co.uk TEMPEST ARMS Skipton, BD23 3AY 01282 842 450 | tempestarms.co.uk THICKET PRIORY Thorganby, YO19 6DE 01904 230 600 | thicketpriory.co.uk THIEF HALL Thornton Le Moor, DL7 9EH 07815 791 395 | thiefhall.co.uk THIRSK LODGE BARNS Thirsk, YO7 4DB 01845 591 158 | thirsklodgebarns.com THIRSK RACECOURSE Thirsk, YO7 1QL 01845 522 276 | thirskracecourse.net THORNBOROUGH HALL Leyburn, DL8 5AB 01969 622 561 | leyburntowncouncil.gov.uk THORNTON HALL Thornton-in-Craven, BD23 3TJ 01282 841 148 thorntonhallweddings.co.uk THE TIMBLE INN Timble, LS21 2NN 01943 880 530 | thetimbleinn.co.uk THE TITHE BARN Skipton, BD23 6EX 01756 631 000 | crippsandco.com THE VILLAGE INN Brompton, DL6 2RL 01609 771 040 villageinnnorthallerton.co.uk WHARFEDALE GRANGE Harewood, LS17 9LW 0113 288 6320 | wharfedalegrange.co.uk WOOD HALL HOTEL Wetherby, LS22 4JA 01937 587 271 | handpickedhotels.co.uk YOREBRIDGE HOUSE Leyburn, DL8 3EE 01969 652 060 | yorebridgehouse.co.uk THE YORKE ARMS Harrogate, HG3 5RL 01423 755 243 | theyorkearms.co.uk YORKSHIRE HOTEL Harrogate, HG1 1LA 01423 706 700 | the-yorkshire.co.uk YORKSHIRE WEDDING BARNS Richmond, DL10 5JD 01748 822 771 yorkshireweddingbarn.co.uk 14
Wedding Vows is one of the longest running bridal shops in Rotherham with a range of designer dresses to suit all budgets. We also offer bridesmaids, suit hire and accessories as well as bridal alteration services. Located opposite Hellaby Hall Hotel straight off the M18 junction 1 with free onsite parking. Stockists of: Veni Infantino, Romantica and Rachel Allen 01709 703040/07853 380 488 weddingvowsuk@gmail.com www.weddingvowsuk.co.uk AT THE NCEM Uniquely Unforgettable 01904632220 events@ncem.co.uk ncem.co.uk/weddings Our stunning Grade I listed medieval church, beautifully converted and surrounded by private gardens, offers an unforgettable setting in the heart of York. e
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Insta-love Olabamidele and Boluwatife met on Instagram and tied the knot at Atoy Venue in Sheffield in September 2025 Images courtesy of Camera Boss REAL WEDDINGS 17
Olabamidele met Boluwatife when he left a comment on an Instagram platform talking about himself and the type of woman he was searching for. Boluwatife followed him as a result, so he sent her a DM and the rest is history! He proposed to her three months later on her birthday at a bar and restaurant in Sheffield. The couple fell in love with Atoy Venue in Sheffield as soon as they saw it. “The all-white interior, bathed in soft white light created the perfect blank canvas for our wedding vision,” Olabamidele explains. “My wife and I are drawn to simple elegance and understated luxury, something refined, not overly busy, but still breathtaking.” They shared the dream of their flowers and lighting taking centre stage and the venue allowed them to bring this to life beautifully. The welcome signs and seating plan were lilac to mirror the palette of their pre-wedding shoot, while they stuck to a main colour palette of nature-based hues for the flowers and remaining décor. The wedding menu was a feast! Alongside the traditional dessert, the couple offered a full menu card to delight guests. The main courses included jollof rice, fried rice, Ofada rice, poundo yam and Amala, accompanied by a variety of soups such as abula, efo, egusi, and buka stew. They also served continental dishes such as tender beef vermicelli noodles, shredded beef in green pepper sauce, curried chicken, garlic sweet corn, and sauteed prawns. The five-tier big-day bake was decorated in pure white icing with beads. “It was heavenly,” Olabamidele remembers. “We got exactly what 18
we requested.” The groom’s suit and agbada outfit were made by a luxury Nigerian brand in Doncaster, while his after party attire was made by a brand based in Manchester. “We’ve followed these suppliers on Instagram and their designs feel unreal.” The groomsmen too wore Nigerian agbada styles in handcrafted designs. Boluwatife wore stunning pieces by Roffy Designer throughout the day. “The most incredible part is that all her measurements were taken virtually,” Olabamidele shares. “Yet each outfit fit her perfectly, as though they were made for her from the start.” Her civil dress was a mermaid style with veil and we’re told that guests haven’t stopped asking who made the masterpiece! Meanwhile, her bridesmaids wore asoebi in matching fabrics. The showstopping entertainment for the day began with a solo artist who serenaded guests with live gospel music. Later, a seven-piece band, Sammy G, took to the stage followed by DJ Screech who packed the dance floor. The highlight of the day for Olabamidele was the spontaneous 30 minutes of worship, making their wedding ceremony exceptionally memorable. REAL WEDDINGS 19
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MOMENTS Minimalist Bethany and Creg said “I do” at Bawtry Hall, and kept their styling chic, elegant and modern with a black and white palette Images courtesy of Pears Photography Beth and Creg met online and wasted no time in moving in together shortly afterwards. That was 10 years ago and they’ve been together ever since. Creg proposed in 2023 at The Grand Hotel in Eastbourne, on the balcony of their suite. When the venue search began, the couple immediately fell in love with Bawtry Hall. “We loved the exclusivity and how amazing it looks inside and out,” Beth explains. The venue spoke for itself, so the colour palette of choice was black and white with simple, minimalist vibes. The florals too were kept simple with white roses and eucalyptus. The reception tables meanwhile, were adorned with mirror plate runners, black candelabras, glass black-rimmed chargers, vases with floating candles and black napkins. The chairs featured ivory drapes tied with black ribbons. Guests were treated to cake pop wedding favours iced to fit the palette. The place names too were in keeping with white ribbons and black writing. Following the “I dos” guests mingled in the grounds while canapés were served. These mini morsels included fish, chips and pea puree; wagyu sliders with cheese sauce and onion relish; and chocolate-dipped strawberries. For the main event sirloin of local roast beef was served with Yorkshire puddings, goose fat roast potatoes and gravy. By the time the evening rolled around, people were starting to get peckish again, so the couple laid on a garden barbecue. Although Beth had her heart set on a huge princess dress covered in sparkles, she ultimately opted for a more classic style in plain satin with big bow detail on the back – Dorothy from Dorothy Eloise Bridal’s collection. “I knew it was the one as soon as I put it on, even though the sample size was too small. It just made me more excited to try the final dress on,” the bride shares. “I felt so beautiful in it on the day, with hair and makeup done. I felt like a princess!” Creg was dressed in a black tuxedo by Antique Rogue, with white Ted Baker shirt, black bow tie and white trainers. His groomsmen were dressed to match. The bridesmaids were sleek and sophisticated in their black, off-the-shoulder, satin gowns, which they accessorised with black pearl headbands. The entertainment for the day was kicked off by Rachel Elizabeth Illustration who took photos of guests allowing her to paint portraits for them to take home. Heading into the evening, the casino went down a storm along with the photo booth, audio guest book and DJ. “The highlight of the day for me was just having all of our favourite people together as Creg and I celebrated our love for each other,” Beth says. “My top wedding tip would be to do your wedding the way you want it. Despite people questioning our choices, we went ahead and did it our way. Don’t get stuck with traditions if you don’t want to. Creg and I didn’t have a wedding cake, a first dance or speeches and it was absolutely perfect – exactly what we wanted.” REAL WEDDINGS 23
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THE W-DAY TEAM Venue and catering, Bawtry Hall, bawtryhall.co.uk | Photographer, Pears Photography, pearsphotography.co.uk | Dress and accessories, Dorothy Eloise Bridal, dorothyeloisebridal.co.uk | Alterations, Handmade by Emily Kate, @handmadebyemilykate | Suits, Suits Direct | Bridesmaids’ dresses, JJs House | Wedding rings, F.Hinds Hair and makeup, Ikizler Beauty & Tanning, @ikizlerbeautyandtanning | Wedding favours, Tomos Cakes, @tomos_cakes23 | Flowers, Blossom Floristry, @blossomfloristry1 | Stationery, Finishing Touch Prints, @finishingtouchprints | Entertainment, Ace Party, aceparty.co.uk Rachel Elizabeth Illustration, rachelelizabethillustration.com | The Magic Photo Booth Company, themagicphotobooth.co.uk | Venue styling, All Occasions Venue Stylist, @all_occasions_venue_stylist Wedding coordinator, Hannah Jayne Weddings, @hannahjayne_weddings 26
Hannah Jayne Weddings, making the experience of getting married the most wonderful experience of them all… Weddings can be overwhelming, but not the ones with Hannah Jayne Weddings by your side! Wedding Personal assistant service, covering anything and everything you need on your wedding day, from steaming dresses, liaising with vendors, helping guests get from A to B, hair and makeup touch ups throughout the day. Getting those nishing touches just right, wether that’s helping you into your gown or assisting your suppliers with your vision. Right by your side every step of the way ensuring you have a seamless and enjoyable day full of love and laughter whilst looking and feeling amazing. You might even call me your wedding fairy godmother… some have! Email: Hannahjayne.edgar@gmail.com • @hannahjayne_weddings
NADIA VIOLIN Award-Winning Wedding & Events Violinist Traditional & Asian Weddings MakingYour Dream Day Sound as Beautiful as it Looks! info@nadiaviolin.co.uk 07426 369 994 nadiaviolin.co.uk Nadia Violin We o er a free consultation to chat about all things oral for your special day. is can take place over the phone or face to face. From our rst informal meeting we will work to create an individual, bespoke package to help you visualise your ideas and budget. As your special day draws closer we work closely with our couples to ensure every detail is perfect down to the ribbon your bouquet is wrapped in. Whether you have a speci c brief or you are happy for us to take the lead, weddings are our passion and bringing your vision to life is what we do best. 07957 349039 • info@ owerstylebeverley.co.uk www. owerstylebeverley.co.uk Natural Storytelling, capturing moments, memories and emotion It is always my priority to capture the true character of your wedding day. I’m not interested in staged poses and cheesy grins. I use a blend of natural documentary style wedding photography and creative portraiture to tell the full story of your day. I’m conscious of keeping the photography short and stress free so you don’t have to spend long away from your guests and will be completely comfortable in front of the camera. If you are planning your wedding I‘d love to hear from you. 07564 953262 • kirstyds@gmail.com • www.kmattssonphotography.com MULTI-AWARD WINNING PHOTOGRAPHER Kirsty Mattsson Kirsty Mattsson Photography
Into the Set in Cockley Wood, the team knew there was only one direction this local shoot could take Images courtesy of Zoe Gibbons Photography WOODS The setting for this local styled shoot, Cockley Wood Weddings, was the project’s inspiration. Set in gorgeous woodlands, there was no theme that fit it better than autumnal oranges, greens and browns. Shoot coordinator and photographer Zoe Gibbons says, “I searched high and low for some of the most amazing suppliers in the industry, including some I used for my own wedding back in 2023. This was my first styled shoot after joining the industry in April 2025, so I wanted it to be amazing.” Mission accomplished we think! Let’s see if you agree. LOCAL SHOOT 29
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THE DREAM TEAM Venue, Cockley Wood Weddings, yorkshirewoodlandweddings.co.uk | Shoot coordinator and photographer, Zoe Gibbons Photography, zoegibbonsphotography.co.uk | Second photographer, Taken by Jordan Photography, takenbyjordanphotography.mypixieset.com | Dresses, Vows Bridal, vowsbridal.co.uk | Hair stylist, Hair & Beauty by Elissa, @hairandbeautybyelissa | Makeup artist, Sarah Oldfield MUA, saraholdfield-mua.co.uk | Suits, Antich Fine English Tailors, antichfinetailors.co.uk | Cake, The Cake Lady - Birdsedge, @www.traceythecakeladyhuddersfield | Bouquet and buttonhole, Ellie’s Dried Delights, @ellies.dried.delights | Venue styling, Everly Events, @everly_events25 | Stationery, Ink & Barn, @inkandbarn Celebrant, Krystina Eyre Celebrant, krystinaeyreindependentcelebrant.co.uk | Models, Stephanie and Joshua Banks takenbyjordanphotography.mypixieset.com takenbyjordanphotography.mypixieset.com 32
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Daunted by the mammoth task that lies ahead? Fear not, our troubleshooting guide to wedding planning is here to help PLANNING Getty Images Whether you got engaged during the popular festive season, or you’re knee deep in spreadsheets at this point, our troubleshooting guide to wedding planning is here to help. If you’ve just set out on your journey to W-day, no doubt your head is swimming with questions right now. Wouldn’t it be nice if you could find all the answers in one handy place? We’ve got you! We’re here with the most common wedding worries and discuss how to handle them. Wedding stress? Pah! We laugh in the face of wedding stress! HOW MUCH IS THIS ALL GOING TO COST ME? The simple answer is that it’s entirely up to you! Before you book anything, before you even look at any inspiration, decide together what you can realistically spend on the big day. Work out not only what you can spend, but what you want to spend. The last thing you need is to fall in love with everything on Pinterest only to end up disappointed when the elements you had your heart set on turn out to be out of budget. Once you have a ballpark total figure you’re both comfortable with (ideally without starting married life in heaps of debt), break your budget into categories. Have a look at our handy guide to allocating your spend. While working out where to spend what, discuss your nonnegotiables list. These are the elements you’ll want to allocate more budget to; there’s a time to compromise and save, and there’s a time not to. Our top tip is to avoid cutting corners on your photographer. They are often priced to reflect the quality of their work and as the photos are the one part of the day that’ll be with you forever, you don’t want to be left with regrets. Likewise, it’s tempting to fall into the trap of believing you can DIY most of it, but there are smart ways of doing this. Before you go gung-ho down the crafting route weigh up the costs of your materials and potential impact on the environment versus the costs of hiring. Considering your guest count will be crucial when navigating your budget – indeed, the two go hand in hand. If you need to lower your budget, cut your guest list. Another way to save is to look for off-peak venue options. You can often save a packet by opting for mid-week dates, winter weddings, or looking out for late availability deals. Yes, we know it’s boring, but spreadsheets will be your best friend! Trust us, it pays to be hyper-organised when it comes to wedding planning, as losing track could see your budget spiral out of control. Include quotes, deposits, balance due dates and remaining balances so nothing sneaks up on you. When contacting suppliers for quotes, make sure you understand anything that could potentially trip you up. For example, VAT, travel charges, and any other hidden costs. TYPICAL BUDGET BREAKDOWN Venue and catering: 40 to 50 per cent Photography and videography: 10 to 15 per cent Entertainment: five to 10 per cent Venue styling and flowers: eight to 12 per cent Attire and beauty: five to 10 per cent Wedding planner or coordinator (if you decided to opt for one): 10 to 15 per cent Everything else (favours, transport, gifts): five per cent Contingency fund: five to 10 per cent Panic-free unsplash.com@markuswinkler 36
WHERE DO I START? Once you’ve settled on a budget and a rough idea of the size of your guest list, discuss your dream date. Venues get booked up quickly, so you may be looking one to two years into the future (unless you opt for late availability). You’ll need to be flexible by choosing multiple preferred dates as you’ll likely be disappointed if you’re too fixed on the matter. What’s more important to you? The where or the when? Go into your venue appointments with your preferred dates, even if it’s just the month or season you’d prefer as well as any dates to avoid. This way, if it’s love at first sight, you’re prepared. Remember, your date isn’t secured until your venue confirms it, so don’t start supplier shopping until this is set in stone. You’ll find the first thing suppliers ask for is your date, so you won’t be able to book anything without it; what’s more, the venue bears such an influence on everything from style to logistics that discussing your dream day without it will be more than a tad tricky. So, what to look for during a venue tour? Capacity is paramount: make sure the venue can accommodate your numbers before booking a viewing so you don’t waste your time or fall in love with somewhere that simply won’t work. Also, look at the venue’s flow as you transition through the day and bear in mind any accessibility needs. Does it suit your vibe and vision? If you’re viewing a historical venue, be sure to check what’s allowed in terms of décor as there may be restrictions in place to protect the integrity of the space. Although, the more ornate the setting, the less styling you’ll need. Make sure you understand everything that’s included in the price you’re being quoted. It’s also worth investigating what extras the venue can offer allowing you to tailor your supplier shopping list. Check out our list of questions to arm yourself with. QUESTION EVERYTHING! 1. What do you provide on the day? Tables, chairs, linen, tableware, lighting, soud system, décor, cake stand and knife, bridal suite are all things venues often include (unless it’s dry hire). 2. Do you have an in-house caterer? If not, do you have a list of preferred suppliers? 3. Can we bring our own alcohol? Is there a corkage fee? 4. Is there a menu-tasting included? 5. What accommodation is available for guests? Are block bookings an option and is there a guest discount? 6. What restrictions are in place for suppliers? For example: noise restrictions, cutoff time, setup and break down times. 7. Are confetti, candles, fireworks or pets allowed? 8. Is there a backup option for wet weather? THERE’S A LOT OF MOVING PARTS! HOW TO I MANAGE IT ALL? Planning a wedding can involve around eight to 15 different suppliers, each with their own contracts, deadlines and needs, leaving much room for worry. We get it, this is the most important day of your life, it’s emotional... and expensive. So, you want people you can trust with such important moments. Look for consistency across reviews as well as how they communicate i.e. are they fast and professional? Ask for galleries of their work – do they wow you? Schedule a consultation ideally over the phone or in person as you’ll quickly get an idea of whether they’re a good fit. Where relevant, check they’re insured and produce, proper, clear contracts. Finally, trust your instincts – what is your gut telling you about their reliability? Choose legitimate businesses with a professional presence online. Find out about contingency plans if they’re unwell on the day or something goes wrong and familiarise yourself with the cancellation and rescheduling clauses in your contract. If you’re not happy with anything, seek clarification or don’t go ahead. We recommend shortlisting three to five suppliers from each category and comparing them across points such as price, communication, reviews, style, personality and what’s included. Be cautious about comparing price alone as value is far more important. Remember, cheaper isn’t always better and expensive isn’t always best. When your team is in place and plates are spinning, they’ll appreciate receiving the following information from you to ensure everyone is where they need to be at the right time, delivering just as you dreamed: timeline for the day, setup instructions, any relevant venue rules, on-the-day contact details, and arrival times. Add any notes they give to you on your all-important spreadsheet, along with their contact details. HOW DO WE MAKE SURE EVERYTHING RUNS SMOOTHLY ON THE DAY? There are a lot of moving parts during a wedding day, so the best way to tackle this is to create a detailed timeline well in advance and make sure all the key players have a copy. It’s PLANNING SOS 37
important for your suppliers to know what’s going on when. Be sure to include: • Hair, makeup and getting ready. • Photographer arrival and departure, along with essential shot list. Factor in time for getting ready and couple shots. • Travel time between venues if applicable. • Ceremony start and end times. • Cocktail hour or drinks reception timings, including any transition periods such as turnaround of the venue between ceremony and reception, or reception and evening party. • Reception elements such as speeches, first dance and cake-cutting. • Any end of night plans such as fireworks or sparkler send-off. If this all sounds a bit overwhelming, why not consider hiring an on-the-day coordinator? They’ll be on site to make sure everything runs like clockwork and is a great option if your budget doesn’t stretch to a wedding planner from the get-go. Alternatively, assign the task to a close friend or family member to keep things moving and keep an eye on timing so you don’t have to. By being organised in the run-up and delegating for the day, you’ll make sure your big day is as stress-free as possible. WE’RE A BIT WORRIED ABOUT FAMILY DYNAMICS – THERE ARE GOING TO BE A LOT OF OPINIONS! Weddings can be emotionally charged for many stake holders but the key is communication and setting healthy boundaries. Clarify your priorities. It’s for the two of you to decide on your non-negotiables – be prepared not to compromise on these no matter what others think. Also have to a hand a further list of areas you’re flexible on, so that if anyone important to you feels they need to influence an area, you’re prepared to present them with something you’d welcome their opinion on. Set your boundaries early on. Decide who gets to have input on which areas. A guest list is a good one, as parents or guardians are likely to have family members in mind they’re keen for you to invite. So, make sure you allow space for this and set parameters on how many people you’re happy for them to suggest – you don’t want your budget running away from you. Consistency is crucial, so don’t waiver on the areas you’ve allowed or not allowed influence over or it can lead to unwanted interference. Keep communication clear and firm, addressing any conflicts calmly. Keep it polite, concise, then close the door (figuratively). For example: “We’ve decided to opt for xyz because it works for our budget, we hope you understand.” The end. Overall, keep the focus on joy and celebration. Remember, your wedding day is about the two of you, no one else. WE WANT TO PLAN THE DAY OF OUR DREAMS, BUT ALSO MAKE SURE OUR GUESTS HAVE THE BEST TIME. Your wedding, your way, is our mantra, but it is possible to go too far down that road. It’s your day, but happy guests make for a happy day. So, what can you do to achieve this without compromising your vision? Keep guests amused being sure to plan entertainment, comfortable spaces and adequate refreshment. Transitions between key parts of the day can easily become boring so these periods are important to remember. Hire musicians or entertainment such as a magician for the post ceremony lull when loved ones are mingling with drinks and you’re off for your Getty Images 38
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