Your Kent Wedding - January/February 2022 (Issue 100)

YOUR BIG-DAY BEST Claire Aunger, Kent Professional Makeup and Therapies https://kentprofessionalmakeup.co.uk We’re engaged! Now what? It’s key to find a make-up artist you feel comfortable with and who offers the style of make-up you’re after. Check to see if they also offer packages such as the Bride-to-Be Package that we have. These include facials, manicures, pedicures and so on, to prepare you for your big day. Make sure you go meet your make-up artist for a trial as well, usually four to six months before the day, but don’t leave it that late to find an MUA as many get booked up years in advance. What’s the one question you most commonly get asked and how do you respond? “Can you cover my blemishes/skin imperfections?” The answer is generally “yes,” however always remember: if you skin has raised bumps, such as spots or whiteheads, the surface may still appear slightly raised. I love and highly recommend Airbase Airbrush Makeup for the majority of my brides as it’s light weight yet builds great coverage. How can we make our big day totally us? It’s important to speak with all of your suppliers ensuring you’re completely happy with what they’re offering. I always advise building some ‘us time’ into your special day, so you can have some space alone to absorb everything. Having a couples massage the day before can also be a great way to start the countdown to W-day. What’s your top planning tip when it comes to big-day beauty? Start a facial routine that’s tailored to your specific skin requirements six to 12 months ahead. Speak to your makeup artist or beauty therapist to see if they can recommend products for you. My brides are recommended Eve Taylor Skincare as it’s professional yet affordable and gives great results. Having a manicure and pedicure every four to six weeks will keep your skin and nails looking great and massages are a fab way to make you feel stress-free and relaxed. THE CEREMONY Alex Hilder Celebrant www.alexhildercelebrant.co.uk We’re engaged! Now what? Remember to take some time with the deep stuff such as why it is that you’ve taken the plunge and decided to get married. What is it about your relationship that makes you want to share it with the world? There’s nowhere near the social pressure to get married that there once was, so spend some time understanding your ‘why.’ From here, the rest will flow easily: how you want to feel, how you want your guests to feel, where you’d like to be, what vibe you want to create, who you want involved... So, when you get to the next step of exploring the amazing range of talented suppliers that we have in Kent, it’ll make it much simpler to find the ones you really gel with. What’s the one question you most commonly get asked and how do you respond? “What can we include in our ceremony and is there anything we can’t say?” To which the reply is always: “You can include anything and say anything you like!” Because the legal registration of your marriage takes place separately, there are no rules for your celebrant-led ceremony. You can say anything, do anything, and include anyone you like! You can even hold it anywhere – on a boat, in the woods, in a restaurant, village hall, back garden, at your licensed venue. Having said that, ‘no rules’ can be an overwhelming place to be. So, I always work with my couples to get to the heart of things, discovering the elements that are key to them and even aspects they definitely wouldn’t want. Then, it’s like doing a jigsaw. With all of the pieces of the puzzle, we can build an entirely unique ceremony. How can we make our big day totally ‘us’? Book a celebrant – its what we do. We’ll work together for several months in the lead up to your day getting to know each other. We can talk about spiritual beliefs – maybe you’re drawn to a nature-based spirituality or bringing together two different religious backgrounds; perhaps there’s a vague feeling of something or maybe it’s not part of your life at all. Then, there are the symbolic rituals, which you may choose to include such as the traditional exchanging rings or handfasting, or modern ones such as sand ceremonies or cocktail making. We can even create a totally bespoke one with symbolism to represent you. What’s your top planing tip when it comes to the ceremony? Don’t let it be the boring bit! The ceremony is the heart of your whole day and the reason you’re all gathered together. Draw your family and friends into your special world, get them laughing and crying, and let it be a celebration of all that’s brought you to that moment. www.tashbustaphotography.com 68

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