BERKS, BUCKS OXON & WEDDING OCT/NOV 2026 £3.55 PICTURE PERFECT Big-day photography advice Where TO wed In North Bucks and North Oxon WIN! MARRIAGE MATERIAL Local real wedding inspiration A SEVEN-NIGHT ALL-INCLUSIVE HONEYMOON IN CLUB MED SEYCHELLES
An Exquisite Oxford venue blending historic charm, enchanting gardens and timeless style. The perfect stage for your wedding story. © Giddy Aunt Photos 01865 282599 Rhodeshouseoxford.com Rhodes House, Oxford ,OX1 3RG © Barker Evans © Barker Evans
This season is a great time to host a wedding – think cosy, rustic-inspired venues decorated with statement seasonal blooms. Searching for ways to wow with wedding flowers? Then don’t miss our cover stars Tamsin and Ed’s stunning display, which decorated the historic interior of stately home Kirtlington Park in Oxford - turn to page 18 to read all about it. Hannah and Tom also chose Oxford to tie the knot, and their blacktie theme at Rhodes House looked super stylish.See more on page 24 and get their big-day look below. Turn to page 15 for dreamy venue ideas in North Buckinghamshire and North Oxfordshire. There’s also the latest news, fashion, beauty and hot honeymoon inspiration. Don’t miss the chance to win your honeymoon to the Seychelles on page 87! Claire Ridley, Editor Hello, autumn Claire x Your Berks Bucks & Oxon Wedding is solely owned, published and designed by Ellis Media and Events Ltd. Whilst every effort was made to ensure the information in this magazine was correct at the time of going to press, the publishers cannot accept legal responsibility for any errors or omissions, nor can they accept responsibility for advert content, or of the standing of advertisers or by the editorial contributions. The views expressed do not necessarily reflect those of the publisher. Your Berks Bucks & Oxon Wedding is published six times a year. ISSN 2049-4203 DESIGN 01376 535 616 artwork@county.wedding ACCOUNTS 01376 535 616 accounts@county.wedding MANAGING DIRECTOR Sarah Ellis | 01376 535 602 sarah.ellis@county.wedding EDITORIAL Editor Claire Ridley | 01376 535 611 claire.ridley@county.wedding ADVERTISING Account Manager Ella Bernard | 01376 538 569 ella.bernard@county.wedding On the cover Emma-Jane Photography (emma-janephotography.co.uk) captured this beautiful cover image of real-life couple Tamsin and Ed on their wedding day at Kirtlington Park (kirtlingtonpark.co.uk). Read how they styled their special day on page 18. Behind the scenes Hannah and Tom chose an elegant black-tie look. Hannah finished her stunning big-day look with a magnificent cathedral-length veil. Visit us online at www.county.wedding and www.countyweddingevents.com @CountyWeddingMagazines @countyweddingmagazines @countyweddingmagazines Hannah and Tom chose Oxford’s Rhodes House for their celebration, caught on camera by photographers Barker Evans. Turn to page 24 to read more. Hannah’s pretty MWL bridal dress was a custom-made version of the Remi-Louie style. Hannah wore a beautiful pair of bridal slingbacks decorated with bows. Joanna Carter Flowers created the magnificent bouquets, buttonholes and floral arrangements. EDITOR’S LETTER 3
WIN A SEVEN-NIGHT ALL-INCLUSIVE HONEYMOON AT CLUB MED SEYCHELLES Regulars 3 EDITOR’S LETTER A warm welcome from Claire 7 NEARLYWED NEWS Catch up on news from around the regions 87 COMPETITION Win a seven-night all-inclusive honeymoon at Club Med Seychelles In this issue... OCTOBER/NOVEMBER 2026 Venues 15 GOING LOCAL Spotlight on North Bucks & North Oxon Features 31 THE END OF PERFECT We explore how couples are falling out of love with perfection and choosing documentary wedding photography 36 BEYOND BORDERS Love to travel? Bring the vibe of your favourite overseas destination to your British big day 42 KEEP IT PERSONAL Experts are warning couples not to rely on AI to write one of the most personal parts of their big day – their vows 44 THE INSTAGRAM EFFECT ON WEDDING VENUES How social media is reshaping the wedding venue industry Win 87 31 44 64 4
Real weddings 18 MEMORIES MADE Tamsin and Ed chose Kirtlington Park as the backdrop for their special day 24 A BLACK-TIE AFFAIR Hannah and Tom’s summer wedding at Rhodes House enjoyed an Italian theme Honeymoons 28 THE WORLD’S BEST 2026 HONEYMOON DESTINATIONS County Weddings has secured a look at a new data study by global travel experts Holafly 80 LOVE IN THE FLORENCE HILLS For couples seeking romance beyond the city crowds, Il Salviatino offers timeless Tuscan charm with unforgettable views 84 MOROCCAN HIDEAWAY Discover a romantic Moroccan hideaway where beachside tranquillity meets culture, adventure and exceptional hospitality 88 COASTAL CALM AND CASTLE VIEWS Set on the edge of the Conwy Estuary, The Quay Hotel combines waterfront luxury with some of North Wales’ most captivating views Fashion & Beauty 48 FASHION FOCUS The latest bridal news, buys and launches 50 BEST-DRESSED GUEST Gold, green, amber and mustard are the hottest hues this season 52 A TOUCH OF COLOUR Whether it’s pink, peach or blue, wedding dresses are embracing seasonal shades 57 ALL IN THE DETAIL These dreamy dresses have been expertly crafted with exquisite details, from bows and buttons to crystals and pearls 64 BEAUTY BUZZ The latest best buys and must haves 66 FACIALIST TO FORMULATOR Debbie Thomas, founder of new skincare brand Cellis, brings us a fascinating clinical masterclass 70 WHEN ALL EYES ARE ON YOU Annette Williams of Silverbrook Hypnotherapy tells us why weddings can trigger confidence anxiety 57 78 Grooms 73 GROOMS’ NEWS The latest best buys and product launches 74 CREAM OF THE CROP This dapper selection of groom’s attire will see out the last of the summer sun before autumnal hues take over 76 FASHION FAUX PAS How to avoid the most common mistakes when choosing a men’s suit 48 74 CONTENTS 5
30-Day Returns | Lifetime Warranty | Price Match Discover unique and bespoke hand-crafted rings, of the finest quality at up to 75% off high street prices. Specialising in custom made, shaped to fit, wedding rings. Book your personal 1:1 appointment 03330 064 411 www.loversrockdiamonds.co.uk The Cherwell Boathouse is an iconic Oxford punt station and restaurant on the banks of the river Cherwell, in an idyllic water meadow setting but close to the centre of Oxford . Both the Restaurant and the Marquee on the terrace overlooking the river are wonderful venues to celebrate all types of Weddings. The Marquee can accommodate weddings with up to 125 guests in a variety of formats from informal to 3 course sit down meals and incorporating music and dancing with the option of punting alongside. The restaurant can accommodate parties of up to 75 guests throughout the year offering a fine dining experience, with an award winning wine list and friendly attentive service. Cherwell Boathouse, Bardwell Rd, Oxford OX2 6ST Marquee / restaurant 01865 552746 www.cherwellboathouse.co.uk | info@cherwellboathouse.co.uk Cherwell Boathouse
Meet Little Charlie, a beautifully restored Nissan Figaro available for weddings and styled bridal moments. This rare, design-led vintage car offers something visually striking with its soft vintage curves, pastel tones, and unmistakable character. As weddings move towards more experience-led and personalised styling, couples are increasingly looking for unique touches that reflect their personalities. Little Charlie offers not just transport, but a statement piece that elevates the aesthetic of a wedding day. facebook.com/people/ Little-Charlie-TheFigaro/61594034938874 NEWS Nearlywed Editor loves THE RISE OF SELF-CATERED WEDDINGS Self-catered weddings, once seen as unconventional, are becoming an increasingly popular budget-friendly option. Whether it’s enlisting the help of loved ones, hiring street food vendors, or carefully curating their own menus, couples are finding creative ways to make the experience feel more personal without overspending. While this approach offers greater freedom, it also brings practical considerations, especially when it comes to safely storing and serving food and drink for a large number of guests. Experts at Buckinghamshire-based Cool Running Trailers, the refrigerated trailer rental experts, suggest these small tweaks to make self-catering easier for couples: *Buy in bulk where you can - wholesale retailers or cash-and-carry shops can work out much cheaper for things like drinks, snacks and ingredients. *Limit the menu options - it might feel generous to offer plenty of choice, but keeping it focused actually saves money and reduces waste. *Avoid over-ordering - it’s easy to purchase too much ‘just incase’ but having a headcount and sticking to it helps avoid unnecessary spending. *Hire a refrigerated trailer - if you’re wanting to provide your own food, getting it to the wedding venue can be an added stress. Proper storage means food lasts longer and doesn’t spoil, which helps avoid throwing money away on wasted ingredients or drinks. *Think about timing – a later ceremony or shorter reception can reduce how much food you need to provide overall. coolrunningtrailers.co.uk/trailer-hire/ refrigerated-trailer-hire Read more on yourberksbucksoxon.wedding Burrow Farm Estate offers exclusive country celebrations Burrow Farm Estate in Buckinghamshire has expanded its wedding offering by launching individual property bookings for the first time, alongside exclusive-use hire. Couples can now choose anything from an intimate countryside stay to a full estate takeover sleeping up to 54 guests, with the Great Barn hosting celebrations for up to 150 guests. It’s a reflection of the growing demand for longer, more private wedding weekends that bring family and friends together in one place. burrowfarmestate.com All the latest from the regions unsplash.com LATEST NEWS 7
Fudge Kitchen launches Envelope Fudge Favours Fudge Kitchen, makers of beautiful, high-end handmade artisan fudge with a shop in Windsor, recently launched Envelope Fudge Favours – an elegant new wedding favour designed to bring a deliciously personal touch to weddings, events and celebrations. Created for couples looking for a stylish favour without an extravagant price tag, each Envelope Fudge Favour contains a generous mini slice of fresh hand-crafted fudge, lovingly made by hand and presented in an elegant envelope-style wrap. Priced at £4.95 per favour (with discounts available on orders of 150 favours or more), the new product offers an affordable way for couples to give guests something genuinely delicious while creating a sophisticated and colourful table display. Envelope Fudge Favours are currently available in six flavours including salted caramel, clotted cream, dark chocolate and sea salt, white chocolate, raspberries and cream, and strawberries and clotted cream. fudgekitchen.co.uk Read more on yourberksbucksoxon.wedding HICKORY’S SMOKEHOUSE COMING TO IVER A barbecue restaurant born from a road trip across America’s southern states is set to fire up the smokers and bring its famous Southern-style hospitality to Iver. Hickory’s Smokehouse has announced plans to transform the former Crooked Billet on Uxbridge Road into its newest smokehouse, with the restaurant expected to open in Spring 2027. Founded in Chester in 2010 after a road trip, Hickory’s has spent more than 15 years perfecting the art of low ‘n’ slow cooking and introducing guests across the UK to the food, culture and warm hospitality of Tennessee, Texas and beyond. Guests can expect cosy booths, live sport and a chef’s bar offering a front-row seat to the theatre of the kitchen, where Hickory’s Pitmasters will be smoking, grilling and serving up authentic barbecue. John Welsh from Hickory’s Smokehouse said: “We’re absolutely fired up to be bringing Hickory’s to Iver! Hickory’s began with a road trip and a passion for the food and hospitality of America’s Southern States. More than 15 years later, we’re still just as obsessed with authentic barbecue and giving every guest a genuinely warm Southern welcome.” John adds, “We can’t wait to get the smokers fired up, become part of the local community for many years to come and swing open the doors in Spring 2027.” Read more on yourberksbucksoxon.wedding Colour Analysis has moved to Maidenhead! The professional in-person colour analysis sessions will now take place from founder Emma Norris’s new studio on North Road, and bookings for the autumn season are now being taken. Seasons Colour Analysis has also recently launched Seasons gift cards in time for Christmas, which can be purchased for colour analysis experiences. There’s also a special offer on Colour Parties, ideal for hen celebrations, where the guest of honour goes free with four or more paying attendees. seasonscolouranalysis.co.uk 8
Celebrate your love story at voco Oxford Spires, where Cotswold stone charm meets contemporary elegance. Nestled within acres of parkland along the River ames—yet just a stroll from Oxford historic city centre—it o ers a picturesque backdrop, tailored wedding packages, and seamless service for an unforgettable, magical day. 01865 324324 • spires.weddings@ihg.com • www.facebook.com/vocoOxfordSpires • www.instagram.com/vocooxfordspires www.ihg.com/voco/hotels/us/en/oxford/oxfar/hoteldetail
At County Wedding Events each show is professionally and meticulously run to ensure a variety of suppliers are on hand to help you plan your big day and are hosted by some of the loveliest premier venues in your area. All our shows offer you free entry and parking, a goody bag each containing gifts, and useful local information to plan your wedding. You will also have the opportunity to enter prize draw competitions and take advantage of exclusive offers and discounts on the day. All shows 11am - 3pm (unless otherwise stated) AUTUMN 2026 WEDDING SHOWS COUNTY WEDDING EVENTS WHERE LOVE MEETS PERFECTION! COUNTY WEDDING EVENTS ESSEX LAYER MARNEY TOWER LAYER MARNEY, COLCHESTER, CO5 9US SUNDAY 18 OCT 2026 FENNES FENNES EST, BOCKING, CM7 5PL SUNDAY 22 NOV 2026 SURREY NUTFIELD PRIORY NUTFIELD ROAD, REDHILL, RH1 4EL SUNDAY 8 NOV 2026 TUDOR BARN BRITWELL ROAD, BURNHAM, SL1 8DF SUNDAY 25 OCT 2026 BUCKINGHAMSHIRE follow us on Facebook Follow our social media pages to keep up to date with our upcoming events! follow us on Instagram
KENT BRADBOURNE HOUSE NEW ROAD, EAST MALLING, ME19 6DZ SUNDAY 1 NOV 2026 HERTFORDSHIRE WARE PRIORY HIGH STREET, WARE, SG12 9AL SUNDAY 25 OCT 2026 PENSHURST PLACE PENSHURST, TN11 8DG SOUTH FARM SHINGAY-CUM-WENDY, SG8 0HR SUNDAY 1 NOV 2026 SUNDAY 8 NOV 2026 12pm - 4pm ATTEND OUR SHOWS Our events are hosted in some of the regions’ best wedding venues, giving you the opportunity to explore the properties first-hand; while our larger Signature Wedding Shows are hosted in iconic venues such as Bluewater, Ascot Racecourse and Mercedes-Benz World. Welcoming newly engaged couples looking to plan their wedding days, each event will boast a huge range of specialists who will be on-hand to talk through your planning ideas and requirements; from venues and bridal boutiques to photographers and performers, there’s everything you could need to plan your wedding under one roof. On the day refreshments will be available to purchase from each of the venue’s on-site restaurants, bars and cafés (venue permitting), there will be ample show discounts and offers from our exhibitors, and a competition to win your honeymoon – what’s not to love? Couples will need to pre-register in advance for an allocated arrival time, although on-the-day visitors are always welcome, what’s more attending our shows are free!
Signature • Free entry • Goody bag for each couple • Up to 200 stands • Huge number of wedding specialists including venues • Demonstration areas • Competitions • Entertainment • Refreshments • And more... www.countyweddingevents.com/signature-events WEDDING SHOWS SUNDAY 18TH APRIL 2027 ASCOT RACECOURSE High Street, Ascot, SL5 7JX 11am-3pm SPRING 2027 TO BE ANNOUNCED MERCEDES-BENZ WORLD Brooklands Drive, Weybridge, KT13 0SL 11am-3pm SPRING 2027 TO BE ANNOUNCED BLUEWATER Bluewater Pkwy, Dartford, DA9 9ST 11am-3pm
Pre-register for all of our events at www.countyweddingevents.com X Sarah Here at County Wedding Magazines and Events HQ we’re looking forward to the next wedding show season – perfect for all those couples recently engaged. From must-visit local fairs in some of the region’s best wedding venues to our larger Signature Wedding Shows, we can’t wait to welcome nearlyweds to our events and help plan their wedding day. Each event will boast a huge range of specialists who will be on hand to talk through your planning ideas and requirements; venues, bridal boutiques, photographers, florists, cake makers and more, there’s everything you could need to plan your wedding under one roof. On the day refreshments will be available to purchase from each of the venue’s on-site restaurants, bars and cafés. Couples will need to pre-register in advance for an allocated arrival time, although on the day visitors are always welcome, and attending our shows are free! For more information, visit County Wedding Events’ website. We look forward to seeing you at one of our events. Sarah Ellis, Managing Director Ellis Media and Events Ltd. A date for your diary... GREAT EXPECTATIONS ASCOT RACECOURSE 18TH APRIL 2027 BLUEWATER TO BE ANNOUNCED MERCEDES-BENZ WORLD TO BE ANNOUNCED
Period wedding venue without the drama... 01628 429955 | weddings@burnhambeecheshotel.com burnhambeecheshotel.com/weddings Newly refurbished with memory making interiors, serious indulgence and a glam bridal suite! IMAGERY: (Bath) Lauren G Photography, Katie Calder at Posh Pins Hair, Jade Laws & Claire Carr Bridal Make Up, Molly Payne Model, Natural Beauty by Steff, Pretty Beauty Salon. (Other) Shell Sperling Photography Award-winning Burnham Beeches Hotel in the Buckinghamshire countryside offers a stately service Set within 10 acres of woodland and lawns, and perched next to the protected nature reserve Burnham Beeches, this stunning 80-bedroom hotel and wedding venue offers a memorable stay. Having recently undergone a creative transformation, the hotel is now the first in a new brand concept: Imerso Hotels, a collection of properties that embrace changing times, taking inspiration from wellness, connectivity and sustainability. Burnham Beeches Hotel is a licensed wedding venue with elegant indoor event suites boasting original features as well as a spectacular outdoor pavilion perched on the rolling lawns against the stunning white Georgian façade. Ceremonies take place here for up to 120 loved ones, surrounded by woodland and wildlife including a family of deer. The Evergreen Tea Room offers a smaller ceremony space for an intimate gathering of up to 50 guests. It has high ceilings, floor-to-ceiling windows, original fireplaces and heritage features. Ceremonies and receptions also take place in the Windsor Suite, a blank canvas that can be styled to fulfil any wedding theme. This light-filled space with wooden floors, contemporary neutral interiors and elegant panelling creates a beautiful big-day backdrop for up to 120 guests. It’s ideal for weddings during the cooler months, with The Chiltern Bar next door, and perfect for summer soirées with access to an outdoor terrace boasting woodland views. The venue can be hired exclusively, with the surrounding 10 acres ideal for hosting large marquees. The experienced chef ensures guests are well fed with creative canapés and freshly made wedding breakfast dishes using locally sourced ingredients. Barbecues and food trucks are also an option, and complimentary food and wine tasting is included in the wedding packages, which include a Twilight Package, Intimate Package, Sweetheart Package, Signature Package and Dry Hire and Exclusive Use. burnhambeecheshotel.com instagram.com/burnhambeecheshotel A Georgian gem
Spotlight on...North Bucks & North Oxon North Oxfordshire is home to some scenic spots and magnificent wedding venues in areas including Banbury, Chipping Norton and Bicester. MERRISCOURT, CHIPPING NORTON, OX7 6QX merriscourt.com instagram.com/merriscourt THE WROXTON, BANBURY, OX15 6QB thewroxton.co.uk instagram.com/wroxtonhousehotel WHATELY HALL HOTEL, BANBURY, OX16 0AN whatelyhall.co.uk instagram.com/whatelyhallhotel DOVECOTE EVENTS, ADDERBURY, OX17 3NP dovecoteevents.uk instagram.com/dovecoteevents TINKERS BARN ESTATE, BANBURY, OX17 2EW tinkersbarn.co.uk instagram.com/tinkers_barn_estate THE JOINERS ARMS, BANBURY, OX15 4LY thejoinersarmsbloxham.co.uk instagram.com/theJoinersarmsbloxham THE CASTLE AT EDGEHILL, BANBURY, OX15 6DJ castleatedgehill.co.uk instagram.com/castleatedgehill COOL CONTOURS VENUE, CHIPPING WARDEN, OX17 1AJ coolcontoursvenue.co.uk instagram.com/cool.contours THE GREENHOUSE, CASTLE QUAY, OX16 2PA greenhousebanbury.com instagram.com/thegreenhousebanbury MERRISCOURT MERRISCOURT GOING LOCAL beewilde.co.uk beewilde.co.uk VENUES 15
WEDSHED AT GLAMPING THORPE, THORPE MANDEVILLE, OX17 2FG glampingoxfordshire.co.uk/properties/ wedshed instagram.com/glampingthorpe TREEDWELLERS, CHIPPING NORTON, OX7 3DF treedwellers.co.uk instagram.com/iamtreedwellers WESTON MANOR HOTEL, BICESTER, OX25 3QL themanorweston.com instagram.com/westonmanorhotel BICESTER HOTEL GOLF & SPA, BICESTER, OX26 1TH bicesterhotelgolfandspa.com instagram.com/ bicesterhotelgolfandspa THE CHESTERTON HOTEL, BICESTER, OX26 1UE www.thechestertonhotel.com instagram.com/thechestertonhotel STRATTON COURT BARN, STRATTON AUDLEY, OX27 9AJ strattoncourtbarn.co.uk instagram.com/strattoncourtbarn COTSWOLD FIELD OF DREAMS, CHIPPING NORTON, OX7 6NH cotswoldfieldofdreams.com instagram.com/cotswoldfieldofdreams THE SWAN, ASCOTT UNDER WYCHWOOD, OX7 6AY lionhearth.co.uk instagram.com/swan_inn_ascott THE COTSWOLDS HOTEL, GOLF & SPA, CHIPPING NORTON, OX7 5QH cotswoldsclub.co.uk instagram.com/cotswoldhotelandspa CORNWELL MANOR, CHIPPING NORTON, OX7 6TT cornwellmanor.com instagram.com/cornwell_manor WEDSHED AT GLAMPING THORPE TREEDWELLERS eddtaylorweddings.co.uk 16
Northern Buckinghamshire is full of wonderful wedding venues located in picturesque countryside settings and in city centres in areas including Aylesbury (the county town of Buckinghamshire), Buckingham and Milton Keynes. BUCKINGHAMSHIRE RAILWAY CENTRE, AYLESBURY, HP22 4BY bucksrailcentre.org instagram.com/bucksrailcentre CRESLOW MANOR, AYLSEBURY, HP22 4EH creslowevents.co.uk instagram.com/creslow_manor THE BARN, AYLSEBURY, HP22 5GA thebarn-venue.co.uk facebook.com/Thebarnrusticvenue NOTLEY TYTHE BARN, LONG CRENDON, HP18 9ER notleyfarm.co.uk instagram.com/notleytythebarn HOTEL LA TOUR, MILTON KEYNES, MK9 3FP hotel-latour.co.uk instagram.com/hotel_latourmk DELTA HOTELS MILTON KEYNES, MK7 6HL marriott.com/en-gb/hotels/ltnde-deltahotels-milton-keynes/overview/ instagram.com/marriottbonvoy BROWNS MILTON KEYNES, MK9 2EA browns-restaurants.co.uk instagram.com/brownsbrasserie OLD SCHOOL WOLVERTON, MILTON KEYNES, MK12 5NH oldschoolwolverton.org instagram.com/oldschoolwolverton WINTERS TALE COUNTRY BARN, BUCKINGHAM, MK18 2HA winterstalecountrybarn.co.uk instagram.com/winterstalecountrybarn HUNTSMILL FARM, BUCKINGHAM, MK18 5ND huntsmillweddings.co.uk instagram.com/huntsmillfarmweddings VILLIERS HOTEL BUCKINGHAM, MK18 1BS villiers-hotel.co.uk instagram.com/villiershotel THE GARDEN TIPI, BUCKINGHAM, MK18 4ND thegardentipi.co.uk instagram.com/thegardentipi BIGSTRUP FARM, DINTON, HP17 8TX bigstrupfarm.com instagram.com/bigstrupfarm ENDEAVOUR WOODLAND WEDDINGS, SWANBOURNE, MK17 OSR woodland.wedding instagram.com/endeavour_woodland_ weddings BUCKINGHAMSHIRE RAILWAY CENTRE katrinamatthewsphotography.co.uk VENUES 17
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Pure elegance Tamsin and Ed’s special day was hosted at Kirtlington Park, which was decorated with a simple, timeless theme Images courtesy of Emma-Jane Photography Tamsin and Ed both studied in Oxford, so this iconic city was a natural choice for their wedding day. “After viewing many stately houses, Kirtlington Park ticked all of the boxes,” they tell us. “It offered on-site accommodation and the most stunning function rooms.” The couple chose a simple and elegant wedding theme with a minimal colour palette. “We had pastel pink for the bridesmaids’ dresses and green floral varieties, making use of local suppliers,” they tell us. “We were both away for work and in different countries for most of the wedding planning, so it was great to be able to rely on our chosen suppliers to help bring our dream vision to life. The talented team at the venue and the catering firm, Greens Catering, took on a good amount of the logistics.” Tamsin and Ed chose canapés and a three-course wedding breakfast followed by a wedding cake of cheese decorated with fresh figs and strawberries. “We had welcome drinks after our ceremony at Christ Church Cathedral before departing by bus for our reception at Kirtlington Park,” Tamsin explains. “Ed’s father gave a wonderful speech before the wedding breakfast.” Tamsin wore the wedding gown called Arcada by Milla Nova, a full-length, A-line style with a straight neckline and a draped waist flowing into a full skirt with a side split and train. “I changed into a stylish short dress during the evening,” she tells us. “Ed wore his military attire, and our groomsmen wore blue suits in varying shades. Our bridesmaids looked stunning in their pastel pink dresses in different styles to suit them.” REAL WEDDINGS 19
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“ ” Top tip: “If you have busy lives, then make sure to hire experienced suppliers so that they can help plan and run the day. Think more about their support and expertise and not about passing trends” - Tamsin and Ed THE DREAM TEAM Photographer, Emma-Jane Photography, emma-janephotography.co.uk | Cathedral, Christ Church Cathedral, chch.ox.ac.uk/ cathedral | Venue, Kirtlington Park, kirtlingtonpark.co.uk | Catering, Greens Catering, greenscatering.co.uk | Cake, Oxford Cheese Co., oxfordcheese.co.uk | Florist, Green Street Flowers, greenstreetflowers.com | Production, Class Act Production, instagram.com/ classactproduction | Wedding dress, Milla Nova, millanova.com | Hair and make-up, Ieva Genovesi, ievagenovesi.com 22
Vintage Wedding Stunning Heritage Railway Venue Buckinghamshire Railway Centre Station Road, Quainton, near Aylesbury HP22 4BY Contact Belinda: events@bucksrailcentre.org 07818 062 958 @celebrationsbysuzi_ www.celebrationsbysuzi.co.uk ~ Award Winning Independent Wedding Celebrant ~ ~ Trusted by couples ~ Recommended by venues ~ ~ Bringing 25 years of professional storytelling expertise to your day ~ ~ Trained, Qualified and Insured by The ICPC ~ Congratulations! Would you like to enjoy a truly personal, joyful, one-of-a-kind ceremony on your wedding day? One that reflects you, your story and your wishes without any rules, restrictions or strict timelines. A ceremony full of meaningful and memorable moments written entirely by me for you? Great! Let’s talk about all of your ceremony options, because you have lots... Hurray!
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Hannah and Tom met at Blenheim Palace where they both walked their dogs. “Tom proposed during a trip to Diamond Beach and Jökulsárlón Glacier Lagoon on the final day of a holiday exploring Iceland,” Hannah tells us. “It’s one of the best winter destinations I’ve ever been to. After he asked me to marry him, we watched a beautiful sunrise and spent time on the beach capturing special photographs we still love now. We ended the evening with dinner, a bottle of Moët & Chandon and watching the Northern Lights before flying home the next day.” The couple loved the traditional character of the Oxford-based wedding venue Rhodes House mixed with contemporary touches. “The spiral staircase and glass pavilion set within the award-winning gardens are stunning,” Hannah tells us. “The McCall MacBain Hall is striking, and as soon as we saw it, we knew we wanted to walk down the aisle there. I am from Oxford, and Tom is from Chipping Campden in the Cotswolds, so we wanted a central location in a beautiful city with plenty of on-site bedrooms to accommodate guests travelling from as far as Australia and Denmark. Oxford provided the excellent network connections we needed.” The couple were originally going to get married at Villa Antiche Mura in Sorrento and loved the idea of an Italian wedding because Hannah’s side of the family has ancestry links to the country. “Both of our dads were diagnosed with the same cancer within the same year, and we realised that life was short, and if we wanted everybody to be there then we needed to get married that summer,” Hannah tells us. “We chose to bring an Italian theme to Rhodes House and got married with just nine weeks to plan it! Luckily the bank holiday date we wanted was available due to a cancellation.” The couple had a live pianist perform while their guests were being seated. “During the ceremony, my friend Jelani Munroe sang alongside the pianist,” Hannah tells us. “He performed a beautiful rendition of Ave Maria just before I walked down the aisle, followed by If I Ain’t Got You by Alicia Keys whilst we were signing the paperwork - it made many of our guests cry.” Hannah and Tom kept their flowers and décor neutral, showcasing the beauty of the venue. “We got married under a magnificent chandelier,” Hannah tells us. “I took advice from our florist, Joanna Carter, as to what would work best for the room, and she changed the ideas of what I originally thought I wanted. She takes so much pride and care in her work, and we repurposed many of the “I loved our one-year-old son being the ring bearer, and the fact that our daughter was inside my tummy on our wedding day.” - Hannah 26
flowers. The bud vases used for the ceremony were then placed on the dinner tables, and the urns and plinths raised for the ceremony were lowered to table level, holding cascading arrangements of flowers at dinner. We also reused the bridesmaids’ bouquets on the registration table. I’ve worked with plenty of florists, and I knew I only wanted Joanna Carter to be in charge of our wedding flowers.” Guests enjoyed a garden drinks reception with a live acoustic set, and canapés that included red pepper tapenade bruschetta, beef meatballs with tomato and parmesan, truffle and parmesan arancini and roast prawns with puttanesca salsa. “Aperol Spritz cocktails, prosecco, beer and sparkling elderflower were served,” Hannah tells us. “Our wedding breakfast was delicious – we still get guests commenting even now on how excellent it was. The starter was Serrano ham with grilled stone fruit, burrata, herbs, gremolata and pine nuts. The main course was a choice of beef, pork and veal lasagne or spinach and ricotta cannelloni. This was served with rocket parmesan, radish and lemon salad or marinated heritage tomato salad with basil pesto, triple-cooked chips and chilli and garlic tenderstem broccoli. Dessert was the traditional Italian Millefoglie with berries and fruit, which we deconstructed in front of our guests - I have no idea how my dress survived Tom squirting raspberry coulis at me!” The couple chose the Italian Zensa Primitivo and German Anheuser Blanc de Noir wine varieties. “We also enjoyed Baby Guinness shots after our speeches as a nod to Tom’s late father, who passed away the week before our wedding,” Hannah tells us. There was a black-tie dress code for the gentlemen, and a De Rigueur Milliner theme for the ladies. Hannah wore a dress from MWL Bride purchased from The White Collection. “I had always known I wanted to wear a MWL wedding dress as I adore the designs and style more than any other designer,” she tells us. “In the end, I chose a beautiful custom-made version of the Remi-Louie style teamed with a stunning cathedral-length veil and a pair of slingback bridal shoes.” Tom wore a smart tuxedo and an Omega Seamaster watch, and his groomsmen wore matching tuxedos. “Our bridesmaids looked great in their champagne-coloured satin dresses, and the flowergirls and pageboy outfits were handmade by my MWL,” Hannah says. The evening entertainment was the live band COOL performing, along with garden games for everyone to enjoy. Top tip:“Discuss your vision with your chosen suppliers and make everything you want clear from the start. Consider choosing a bespoke menu, and give your photographer a list of images you want.” - Hannah and Tom REAL WEDDINGS 27
THE DREAM TEAM Photography, Barker Evans, barkerevans.com | Venue, Rhodes House, rhodeshouse.ox.ac.uk/venue-hire/weddings | Catering, Wilson Vale, wilsonvale.co.uk | Florist, Joanna Carter Wedding & Event Flowers, joannacarterflowers.co.uk | Stationery, Cherry Press, cherrypress.co.uk | Make-up artist, Erin Taylor, instagram.com/makeupbyerintaylor | Hair, Georgina Harkins, hairbygh.co.uk | Band and pianist, COOL, acoolband.com | Acoustic music, Thom Music, thom-music.com/about | Bridal dress, Made with Love, thewhitecollectionbridal.co.uk | Bridesmaids’ dresses, Six Stories, sixstories.co.uk | Wedding rings, Samara James, samarajames.com and We Three Kings, wethreekingswitney.co.uk | Photo booth, Magical Memories Photo booth, magicalmemoriesphotobooths.co.uk | Garden furniture and parasols, Oxford Event Hire, oxfordeventhire.co.uk | Security, Oxford Security Services, oxfordsecurityservices.co.uk | Bar (during the evening), The Oxford Bar Company, theoxfordbarcompany.co.uk “My favourite moment was walking into the wedding breakfast to huge cheers and celebrations.” - Tom 28
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The end OF PERFECT We explore how couples are falling out of love with perfection and choosing documentary wedding photography For more than a decade, as social media grew in popularity and became increasingly ingrained in our lives, so too did the desire for polished, Insta-worthy wedding shots. The ultimate goal was to secure images that belonged on the front cover of a luxury magazine. But rather than choosing between polished portraits and authentic moments, today’s couples increasingly want both. They’re looking for photographers who’ll capture their wedding day as it unfolds, rather than a series of carefully staged moments. The rise of documentary photography reflects a need for authenticity and presence, going hand-in-hand with the trend for ultra-personalised big days. Today, the perfect wedding album might include a tear-streaked face, hilarity on the dance floor or the youngest guests running with abandon through the venue’s grounds. FROM PINTEREST TO PRESENCE Social media and its resulting habit of doom-scrolling has caused many to reach the point of perfection fatigue. Today’s couples have grown up exposed to an endless parade of highly curated content from lifestyle to fashion, and of course weddings. Whereas the previous generation might have envisioned their wedding day in the form of scrapbooks, sketches and marked-up magazines, Gen Z-ers naturally gravitate to Pinterest, Instagram and TikTok for their wedspiration. After years spent in the pursuit of perfection, perhaps the pandemic and months spent in isolation reminded us of what matters most. When the wedding industry emerged from lockdown, the trend for more intimate, meaningful wedding days quickly became prevalent, and in the years that followed, this beating heart has remained even though we’re seeing guest numbers begin to grow once more. To reflect these personalised celebrations, there’s a growing demand for photography that showcases candid storytelling, genuine emotion and real moments. A recurring theme we see among our real wedding couples is that many have no desire to spend the moments following their ceremony posing for the camera with an endless parade of carefully planned guest groups. No, they’re far keener to get the party started, and why not? With a documentary photographer at the helm, there’s no need to fear a lack of captured memories of your nearest and dearest. Seeing themselves more as observers, they shoot moments of you and your guests as they unfold. It’s their job to be in the right place at the right time, with the camera pointing in the unsplash.com@jakobowens 30
right direction, to capture every sign of emotion from the key highlights to the intimate moments you missed on the day. All the while, you’re free to be fully present and experience the allimportant day. For many, these are the images that pack the biggest emotional punch, immortalising genuine reactions in a moment that’s fleeting. They’re the ones you’ll look back at in years to come with a genuine smile on your face, not necessarily the ones where you’re all grinning stiffly for the camera. THERE’S BEAUTY IN REALITY Capturing reality doesn’t mean ugly photos! Today’s couples want authenticity that’s beautiful. Documentary photography is a skill, carefully honed over many years and many weddings. It’s knowing where to be at precisely the right moment, shooting it in a split second, and delivering a resulting image that’s as stunning as it is raw. These photographers are truly talented folk. One of the most interesting contradictions in all of this is that documentary photography is often carefully crafted to look effortless. Most documentary photographers today find themselves in demand for full day coverage, with only a short spell during the drinks reception spent on an editorial-style couple shoot. Formal group shots are almost entirely out. So, the resulting album offers the perfect blend of stunning luxury couple images, ready for the wall, along with a story of the day as it unfolded. TECH TROUBLES While technology in the form of social media undoubtedly played its part in the pursuit of perfection, it also influenced “The perfect wedding album might include a tear-streaked face, hilarity on the dance floor...” unsplash.com@genessapana unsplash.com@3tnik unsplash.com@victoriapriessnitz unsplash.com@victoriapriessnitz unsplash.com@timscreate PHOTOGRAPHY 31
photographers in the way they work. Digital photography and editing software mean they have far more flexibility to craft that picture-perfection. With virtually unlimited storage, they can simply keep snapping until they get the one. In the past with film, flash photography and disposable cameras, there was no such luxury – in the words of Eminem, you only get one shot. Full wedding galleries might consist of 50 images rather than today’s standard of 700 to 900 images. Many modern photographers are choosing to go back to the good old days and offer their couples the option to have part of their gallery captured on film. After all, it’s a format that naturally feels emotionally honest, resembling family memories rather than slick professionalism. THE DEMAND FOR CONTENT Content creators seemingly emerged from nowhere over the past couple of years to become a must-have wedding extra. This speaks not only to the continued importance of social media in people’s lives, but also to the need for a much more informal approach. It shows how important wedding photography is, as couples are no longer prepared to wait months for a glimpse of their professional images. They want to relive every moment the very next day, and content creators offer just that. What’s more, they lean into the desire of couples to truly be present on their big day, extending this gesture to their nearest and dearest. With a content creator on hand, there’s no need for bridesmaids and groomsmen to spend the day trapped behind their smartphones. They get to be the subjects rather than the photographers. Content creators were never intended to replace the need for a professional wedding photographer though. While professional photographers remain responsible for creating timeless images to treasure for decades to come, content creators offer something different: instant access to the atmosphere, excitement and behind-the-scenes moments of the day. Perhaps the greatest sign of changing priorities is that couples no longer want wedding photographs that simply show how the day looked. They want images that remind them how it felt. Remember, the new luxury is looking unposed! DOCUMENTARY DEFINED ‘Documentary’ is not so much a description of the visual style but rather the approach. Instead of herding guests and directing shots, your photographer will quietly observe and anticipate, making them much less intrusive by nature. Many have told us their aim is for their couples to forget they’re even there. Where traditional wedding photography focuses on planned moments, formal portraits, and perfect compositions led by the photographer, the documentary style is all about spontaneity, storytelling, and authenticity where the photographer follows. “Many have told us their aim is for their couples to forget they’re even there.” unsplash.com@victoriapriessnitz unsplash.com@pedropulidophotography 32
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liso e e@ el e h rp eddi gs.co.uk . el e h rp eddi gs.co.uk Images courtesy of Wild River Ravens et l, Goth, Rock, F t sy & G i g usic You select 100% of the usic fro £450 lter ti e eddi g H rpist d Si ger Alternative wedding harpist and singer reveals Halloween and Christmas tracks Alison Eve, founder of Buckinghamshire-based Aelvenharp Weddings, specialises in alternative weddings, blending ethereal melodies with an unconventional spirit to create music that feels personal, magical and atmospheric. “Whether exchanging vows in an ancient woodland, a candlelit hall, or beneath the open sky, my music offers a sense of ritual, romance, and wonder,” she tells us. “I create an authentic experience that reflects each couple’s way of celebrating love.” Alison plays on a black electric lever harp with LED lights. She can perform as guests gather for the ceremony, followed by a couple of entrance pieces. “This is unique to each wedding, depending on whether both halves of the couple want to make an entrance, how many are in the bridal party and whether there is a long walk to get to the registrar,” she tells us. Alison can also play during the drinks reception and the wedding breakfast, and sometimes she is requested to perform for those parts and not the ceremony. “In the last few years, several couples have asked me to play their first dance track, before the DJ or band,” she says. “As a singer and harpist, I can sing all or some of the music, or do everything instrumentally – the couples get to choose the music played. I created a database called The Harpinator, where each couple has their own private portal on my website and selects their music choices. Requests this year include Time After Time by Cyndi Lauper, the Pokémon theme and Modern Love by John Lunn.” Alison enjoys dressing up to fit with the wedding theme, whether it’s a gothic look or a viking vibe. “With Halloween and Christmas coming up, I will be busy playing music from the films Corpse Bride and The Nightmare Before Christmas,” she says. When it comes to advising newly engaged couples about booking their big-day music, Alison advises them to talk about what they do and don’t like. “At wedding shows, I ask visitors what their favourite music is, so get prepared for that question. You may want to ask this question of your loved ones, too.” facebook.com/WeddingHarpSong instagram.com/aelvenharp Your wedding, your music, your choice
Millie Miles provides professional event furniture hire, catering equipment hire, and tableware hire for weddings, private events, corporate functions, parties, and hospitality venues. We deliver high-quality tables, chairs, furniture, catering equipment, glassware, cutlery, and crockery, all maintained to exceptional standards for a seamless event experience. Serving Oxford, Abingdon, Witney, Chipping Norton, Didcot, Bicester, Banbury, Wantage, Woodstock, and surrounding areas across Oxfordshire, the Cotswolds, Buckinghamshire, Berkshire, Gloucestershire, Northamptonshire, Warwickshire, and the wider South East, including London, Millie Miles is your trusted partner for reliable, flexible, and professional event hire solutions. Tel: 01869 351603 • Email: info@milliemiles.co.uk www.milliemiles.co.uk Oxfordshire-based Millie Miles Event Hire reveals venue styling trends For an extensive, high-quality selection of wedding hire items including china, glassware, cutlery, tablecloths, napkins, garden games and tables and chairs, visit Millie Miles Event Hire, founded by director Lorna Miles. “We offer outstanding customer service and competitive prices,” Lorna says. We can deliver to anywhere in the UK, but mainly cover Oxfordshire, Buckinghamshire, Berkshire, and the surrounding counties.” When it comes to advice for engaged couples booking styling items, Lorna suggests checking what’s included once the venue is booked. She says, “Consider hiring items if you require more, or something different. If possible, secure your date with a hire company at least 12 months in advance, especially for the peak summer season. Once your caterer has been chosen, discuss your cutlery, china and glassware options with them.” Rather than following one particular wedding style, Lorna reveals how trends are pointing towards celebrations that feel deeply personal, immersive and unforgettable, reflecting the couple getting married. “Weddings are becoming less about tradition and more about telling the couple’s story, with less pressure to get it right,” she tells us. “Couples are moving towards keeping the traditions they love and ignoring the ones that mean nothing to them. Wedding weekends are becoming popular too, with couples increasingly wanting more time with their guests, rather than having a few hurried hours, with the day passing by far too quickly. Couples are choosing a slower, more sociable style of celebration.” When it comes to colour themes, Lorna is seeing change after years of sage green and neutral shades being popular. “Colour requests that we’re seeing for 2027 include yellow, apricot, peach, olive green, burgundy and earthy clay tones,” she says. “Rather than matching everything perfectly, couples are embracing layered shades that feel relaxed, natural and full of character, to introduce warmth and personality.” milliemiles.co.uk instagram.com/milliemileseventhire Your day, your way samsparksweddings.co.uk instagram.com/adamhudsonphoto
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Love to travel? Bring the vibe of your favourite overseas destination to your British big day BORDERS Beyond Favourite foreign destinations hold dear memories for all of us. So, bringing them to life through your venue styling is a beautiful way to tell your love story. These holiday hotspots might hold the key to your engagement moment or simply be somewhere the two of you adore visiting together. If you have somewhere special that sums up the tale of your relationship, why not weave it into your big day? Bring your own personality and heart, whether it’s subtle nods through the table names, or an all-out vibe. We’ve put together some moodboards to help you develop your own international aesthetic. After all, why leave the UK when you can bring the best of the world to your own doorstep? unsplash.com/@claybanks VENUE STYLING 37
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